The “Booty Call”


By Nick Campbell:

Ahh the late night booty call. The one topic in the corner of everyone’s mind in regards to sex. How common are booty calls? Think about it, you’ve been at the club with your friends hanging out. It’s 2am the club just let out, you’ve been drinking and thinking who can I call for a late night session? Men and women do it alike, I don’t even think one does it more than the other. I’d call it at 50/50 because both men and women today love sex equally. Even though when it comes to booty calls women can execute them a lot easier than men. So although it’s a bit on the uglier side of sexual behavior, let’s be frank: it happens! And since it does, that means it’s fair game. It warrants a discussion.

How would you define a booty call? 

Is it defined by the time you call? I thought it was the “reason” they call. I’ve been up bored late at night and called someone up to just to chop it up. But does that mean I was trying to get it in? Not necessarily, but that’s the impression many have. I’m sure some people will not call on purpose to say hello in fear of being labeled this way.

Some people get the impression that a booty call only happens on the late night. In fact they can jump off in the morning when the S/O goes to work. While the kids are at school, basically when the opportunity arises! Booty calls are open 24/7

Don’t make the mistake in assuming that a booty call only happens on the late night tip. It goes down in the morning, afternoon, during work you name it. Besides, most women schedules theirs early anyway. They won’t call at like 2 am, but what they will do is call you around 7pm and let you know they’re going out and ask to come by after. Ok, they aren’t calling in the wee hours of the morning, but they still have a plan to come by really late for sex. What’s the difference?

 Fact: Women can execute a booty call easier than men. So why do women take such offense to that late night call when they practically run it?

Don’t believe me when I say women own the booty call? Consider this:  A man calls a woman at 3am and says I wanna come thru and get it in with you. Response? N–a is you crazy it’s like 3am what you think I am a booty call?  A woman makes the same call. Man’s response: “what time will you be here?” I’m just saying…

I know there are certain rules to the whole late night hook up thing (booty call) but if this hasn’t been added than it should be. You cannot plan a booty call! Not only did you ruin the spontaneity how do you figure someone is going to “hold their schedule” for you? #Rude

How selfish can someone be to assume that someone is just going to sit up and wait for someone to get done kicking it and see you after? That does challenge the way women perform booty calls because they prefer to hook it up prior. Compared to the fellas who’d rather have it be spontaneous and call as were leaving.

 

The booty call is so complex yet simple at the same time. It’s one of those topics in sex that we can’t avoid. Whatever you feel about the practice is fine, and for those not familiar with it hopefully this gives a little insight. 

Till next time! 

-Nic

Nicholas Campbell

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About Nick Campbell

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A modern day gentleman who loves to explore all aspects of relationships and discuss problems this new generation faces in love. Born and raised in the Bay Area, well traveled and cultured. Single Dad, tech connoisseur and news junkie. Drop a line if there is something you'd like discussed!